Dating and liars in nc
This may help relieve the anxiety of the other person, plus it’s a safeguard for you both in case something happens.
First off, telling a woman about what you would like to do to her sexually without any prompting is not a compliment.
It’s creepy, and in some instances really scary – not a turn-on by any means. If you see a picture of a woman you like, take the time to read her profile. When messaging a woman without bothering to learn about her through her profile, it may come across as you not caring about her as a person – no one wants that. If you’re interested in something casual, tell her or put it in your profile.
Neither is asking for, or offering to send, nudes (unless they were not discussed first). If you’d like a casual encounter, make that known as well.
In total, I received 34 messages, all of which were very nice.
I never replied to any of the messages, however there were a few men who messaged me twice despite that, in an attempt to get a response.
I personally have had some experience with Ok Cupid before this experiment, which weren’t completely positive.