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Or you might want to just wallow in your hurt or sadness.
But take comfort from the fact that God wants to use this to refine you, using trials “of various kinds” (James 1:2) to help you become more like Christ.
We need to remember that just as our identity is in Christ in the dating relationship (we are not defined by this relationship or by being pursued), so, too, in the breaking up…this broken relationship does not now define you.
Most of the church is not thinking as much about it as you are, so when people ask you how your life is, feel free to share other things that are going on, as there are likely many things to talk about.
“I talked to X about this, and he/she thinks we should break up.” It’s tempting to do this rather than taking responsibility oneself.
On the other hand, you have a responsibility to do good to that person as your Christian brother or sister.
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Often the person breaking up has taken a great deal of time to think, come to his/her conclusions and then unloads and leaves. There are times when it will be helpful to leave room for a follow-up conversation, giving the “break-ee,” if you will, a chance to hear and process a bit.
They may have questions or things to discuss afterwards.
Even in the act of breaking up, you need to be thoughtful, gracious and loving towards the other person (Ephesians 4:1-3; Colossians. After all, he or she is a child of God, and is loved by God, so what gives you any right to treat them any different than God?