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Plus, he’s a man who knows more about the inner workings of women.He can use this knowledge to be a better man for you and he can use it for his own selfish reasons. When your bullshit-ometer goes off, listen to it and call him on it.You may feel you have to fit into his world since he’s older, wiser and set in his ways.By doing this, you’ll be doing yourself a disservice. You’re too young to settle for someone who isn’t right for you.
Although some older men treat younger women as trophies, not all of them do.
Just because he’s older doesn’t mean he has settled down. Think of how you would feel if the shoe were on the other foot.
Some men live a George Clooney type of life, and plan to die a bachelor. You wouldn’t want some other (younger) woman trying to take your place in your children’s lives. He may be ready to settle down and start a family, while you are just getting started as an adult and have no interest in settling down.
If you are drawn to older men for the security they bring, don’t judge him by his expensive suits, watch and nice car.
He may have had a wealthy ex-wife or he may be paying a huge chunk of his salary to his ex-wife and kids.
Just as you’d do with a younger man, choose wisely.