Purpose dating relationships
As I reflect back on her words, and the things I shared with her that night, I realize a lot of the challenges we face today as singles center around the confusion of intentionality.The standards of our culture leave us believing it is okay to date with selfish intent—to date without purpose, with no plan, without deliberate acknowledgement and respect for the other person’s feelings, heart and emotions.
Being intentional means not being afraid to communicate.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. Dating also helps you eliminate everything which you would not want out of a relationship,or eventual spouse.. I think that my sex drive is just fine, but I am only interested in making love, and I'm not interested in having sex for the sake of fun or physical release or ego boosting. Otherwise, all my life I've had many great male platonic friends, and from spending time with them, I've gotten a good sense of what sort of personalities and traits I prefer in a boyfriend.
Some people I know really think the actual act of dating is fun. That is if you aren't consciously ignorant of those red flags some of the undesirable people you will come across in your dating life... I feel there are many very enjoyable things to do in life, not just having sex. And I would never date a man that thought having sex and looking at porn was the most enjoyable activity in his life. So I haven't needed to do any actual field research by dating lots of different men in order to achieve the same purpose.
Being intentional means being clear in your delivery.
Saying “Hey, I’ll be at _______ Saturday night,” announces where you are going, but it doesn’t include the other person.
I would hope so, miu, you are the one who claims you are smack center in a 6 year serious relationship with a man, currently.